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As each school season approaches, it’s natural to hope this will be the moment your child’s focus or learning challenges finally ease. But back to school success for ADHD comes from proactive, brain-based steps that calm the nervous system—not wishful thinking.
When dysregulation isn’t addressed, kids repeat familiar patterns like poor grades and social struggles. You’re not failing, and neither is your child. We simply need a different approach.
Here’s how I guide parents toward real, lasting change.
How do I know if this rough start is ADHD or just my kid needing more structure?
Structure isn’t about rigidity—it’s about safety. It helps the brain know what’s coming next so it doesn’t go into fight-or-flight.
Try:
- Predictable morning and after-school routines
- Visual schedules for kids who struggle with transitions
- Co-regulation—your calm helps their brain settle
What if my child has no friends and I’m scared this year will be the same?
Social struggles are heartbreaking, especially when your child starts avoiding peers because of past failures. When the nervous system is dysregulated, social skills don’t “stick.” That’s why we regulate first, then practice skills.
Support your child by:
- Role-playing common social situations
- Supervising short, structured playdates
- Becoming a “social detective” together—talk about what went well afterwards
- Keeping expectations small and success-oriented
How do I get real help when the school keeps saying, ‘Let’s wait and see’?
If your child is struggling, you don’t need permission to get support. Schools often move slowly, but you can absolutely request evaluations, advocate for accommodations, and seek resources outside school.
Important steps:
- Request a 504 or IEP evaluation in writing
- Know your rights—Wrightslaw.com is a goldmine
- Contact community agencies for low-cost therapy options
- Remember: schools help with school, but you also need home support
Being proactive saves your child from years of frustration. You deserve help, and so does your child.
What can I do at home so we’re not repeating last year’s chaos?
You have so much power, and small steps go a long way. To support back to school success for ADHD, focus on brain regulation:
- Magnesium and Vitamin D (my favorite starting supplements)
- Exercise and movement breaks
- An anti-inflammatory diet
- Reducing screen time before school and bedtime
- Therapeutic support when patterns feel stuck
How do I help my child with executive functioning? They can’t start or finish anything.
This is incredibly common—especially in ADHD and learning disorders. Executive functioning is a brain regulation issue, not laziness.
Support looks like:
- Breaking tasks into microsteps
- Using external supports like timers, checklists, or movement breaks
- Teaching brain-based strategies, not punishment
- Getting your free tools by watching my executive functioning webinar
When we reduce overwhelm, kids discover they actually can get things done.
When your child is dysregulated, it’s easy to feel helpless. The Regulation Rescue Kit gives you the scripts and strategies you need to stay grounded and in control. Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and get your free kit today.
🗣️ “Doing the same thing over and over and hoping school magically goes better isn’t a plan—being proactive is how we change a child’s life.” — Dr. Roseann
Takeaway & What’s Next
Back to school doesn’t have to feel like walking into the same battle. When we regulate the brain, add structure, and seek the right support, our kids finally get to experience success. For more on building predictability and calm before school even starts, listen to Summer Structure for ADHD and LD Kid.
FAQs
How do I help my ADHD child transition back to school without meltdowns?
Start routines early, add structure, and focus on calming the brain first. Predictability reduces anxiety and behavior issues.
Is it too late to get a 504 or IEP once school starts?
No. You can request one anytime, and the school must respond. Advocacy is your superpower.
My child’s focus gets worse after summer—why?
A lack of routine can dysregulate the nervous system. Reintroducing structure helps the brain settle.
Every child’s journey is different.
That’s why cookie-cutter solutions don’t work. Take the free Solution Matcher Quiz and get a customized path to support your child’s emotional and behavioral needs—no guessing, no fluff. Start today at www.drroseann.com/help
