Feeling like homework time is a battlefield and school is a daily stress test? You’re not alone. It’s not bad parenting—it’s a dysregulated brain.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to help a neurodivergent child thrive at school. I’ll share simple, brain-based strategies you can use right away. Discover how IEPs, movement breaks, and multisensory teaching boost focus and confidence.
Why does my child do fine in class but melt down after school?
When the nervous system is overloaded, kids “hold it together” at school and unravel at home—because you’re safe. Behavior is communication.
Try this:
- Build a predictable routine for the after-school window (snack → movement → homework).
- Add a movement reset every 15–20 minutes to oxygenate the brain.
- Keep directions short and explicit to reduce cognitive load.
Parent snapshot: After school, do 10 minutes of stretching together, then a protein snack, then a visual checklist for homework.
After-School Calm Routine
🕒 Step 1: Give your child a healthy snack right after school (protein + water).
🤸 Step 2: Do 10 minutes of movement or stretching together to release stress.
🧘 Step 3: Take 3 deep breaths and do a short transition activity (music, drawing, or cuddles).
📚 Step 4: Start homework with a visual checklist—one task at a time.
💡 Tip: Repeat this same order every day to create safety and predictability.
Do we need an IEP or a 504—and what’s the difference?
IEPs add direct instruction and specialized services; 504 plans provide access, supports, and accommodations. Labels aren’t life sentences—they open doors to help.
Tips:
- Lead with strengths when you email teachers; share what works at home.
- Ask for multisensory instruction and scheduled movement breaks in the plan.
- Collaborate early to avoid adversarial meetings. Regulate. Connect. Correct.™
What teaching strategies actually help my neurodivergent learner?
Most ND brains learn best when we make learning multisensory and explicit.
Do this at home:
- Multisensory “brain hacks”: trace spelling words in sand, read aloud while walking, use a seat wedge or standing desk (rotate tools so they stay novel).
- Explicit teaching: show exactly what “done” looks like with examples and rubrics.
- Keep movement moderate to vigorous every 15–20 minutes to sustain attention.
It’s gonna be OK—let’s calm the brain first.
How important is social-emotional learning for grades… really?
Huge. Kids learn best when they feel safe and connected. Social skills are academic skills.
Build it in:
- Coach friendship skills (greeting, turn-taking, repair scripts).
- Use clear, repeatable routines so kids know what to expect.
- Team up with the school—share your child’s learning profile and regulation plan.
Example: Practice “pause–breathe–ask for help” before starting math.
Yelling less and staying calm isn’t about being perfect—it’s about having the right tools.
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🗣️ “When we make the implicit explicit—and add movement and multisensory tools—neurodivergent kids finally get what their brain needs to learn.”
— Dr. Roseann
Quick Brain-Boost Wins for Neurodivergent Kids
Quick Wins Recap:
- IEP = instruction + services; 504 = access supports.
- Movement breaks every 15–20 minutes, keep attention online.
- Multisensory + explicit teaching accelerates learning (especially for dyslexia).
- Social-emotional learning now, not later—connection drives academics.
- Consistency over intensity—small daily actions change the brain.
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Real Parent FAQs: How to Support Your Neurodivergent Child
What is the fastest way to calm my child before homework?
Start with movement + protein. Ten minutes of stretching or brisk walking, then a snack, then a clear, two-step direction.
How often should my child take movement breaks?
Every 15–20 minutes during learning. Keep it moderate to vigorous to re-energize attention.
Is a label harmful?
Labels unlock services. They don’t define your child; they guide, support, and instruct.
What if my child resists sensory tools?
Rotate tools to keep novelty, and pair them with choice (“chair band or wobble cushion?”). Keep sessions short.
How do I get the school on board?
Lead with strengths, data, and solutions. Share what works at home and ask for clear goals, rubrics, and scheduled breaks.
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You’re not alone. Behavior is communication—and when we calm the brain first, everything follows.
