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240: The Latest on ADHD and Autism Research with Beth Lambert

Seeing more autism and ADHD diagnoses and feeling concerned? Discover why behavior is a signal—not the cause—and what helps first. This episode with Dr. Roseann features Beth Lambert, Director of Documenting Hope, on reducing stress and supporting the nervous system.

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I talk to parents every day who feel shocked and scared by rising autism and adhd cases. If that’s you, I get it. It can feel like the ground is shifting under your feet—more big feelings, more school struggles, more “why is this happening?” moments.

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Beth Lambert from Documenting Hope. We talk about why this rise is not about one “smoking gun.” It’s about the total load—all the stressors that stack up on a child’s brain and body in the modern world. 

️ “If you think it’s genetic and there’s nothing you can do, you’ll take no action… but if you believe it’s reversible, you take a completely different path.” — Dr. Roseann

Why are rising autism and ADHD cases happening in so many kids?

There isn’t one simple cause. I want you to think “stacking stress.” When a child’s system is already sensitive, the modern world can add more and more load. That can show up as big behavior.

Start with what matters most: sleep, nutrition, stress, and connection.

Example: A parent might notice their child melts down more after late nights, too much screen time, and skipped meals. That’s not “bad behavior.” That’s a brain asking for help.

How do I help without getting overwhelmed and doing 50 things at once?

If you’re already maxed out, you don’t need a giant plan. You need micro steps. Start with what gives the biggest payoff—often it’s regulation and routine.

Try this: pick one change and track it for 7–14 days.

  • Co-regulate first (slow voice, soft face, low-and-slow breathing)
  • Choose one lever (bedtime, breakfast protein, screens, or one food trigger)
  • Notice the pattern (sleep + food + stress almost always show you clues)

Can symptoms improve without changing who my child is?

Yes. Supporting regulation doesn’t erase personality or identity. It reduces suffering. If sensory issues, sleep problems, anxiety, or irritability are making life hard, your child deserves support. Improvement is about comfort, access, and calm—not “fixing” your kid.

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Takeaway & What’s Next

When we talk about rising autism and adhd cases, I want you to remember: behavior is communication, and the body is always giving clues. Start with the foundations—sleep, nutrition, stress, and connection—then personalize from there. Next, listen to AuDHD: How Autism Affects Attention for a deeper look at how attention and autism overlap. You are not alone, and there’s always a next step.

FAQs

What is “total load” in plain language?

It’s the pile-up of stressors—sleep issues, inflammation, toxins, infections, nutrition gaps, and chronic stress—that can push a child into dysregulation.

Where should I start if my child is picky or only eats “white foods”?

Start with one small shift, like adding protein at breakfast or swapping one snack. Slow and steady changes can still move the needle.

Do I need to do supplements or a huge protocol?

Not always. Many families see progress by starting with regulation, sleep, and nutrition basics—then layering support if needed.

Tired of not knowing what’s really going on with your child? The Solution Matcher gives you a personalized recommendation based on your child’s behavior. It’s free, takes minutes, and shows the best next step. Go to www.drroseann.com/help

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Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge: Helping Families of Dysregulated Kids Thrive Through Regulation First Parenting™

 
Dr. Roseann believes every family deserves to move from chaos to connection—and that transformation begins with addressing emotional dysregulation in children at its true source: the nervous system.

As the creator of Regulation First Parenting™, she’s helping families of dysregulated kids discover a compassionate, brain-based path forward. Through The Dysregulated Kids™ Podcast (top 2% globally), she offers practical strategies that help parents understand their child’s brain and support lasting change.

Through The Global Institute of Children’s Mental Health and Dr. Roseann, LLC, she’s created resources like the BrainBehaviorReset® program, Neurotastic™ Brain Formulas, and the Regulation First Parenting™ framework—meeting families where they are and supporting them through challenges like ADHD, anxiety, OCD, PANS/PANDAS, and behavioral struggles.

Recognized by Forbes as “a thought leader in children’s mental health,” Dr. Roseann is changing how we understand emotional dysregulation in children—one family at a time.

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