

Danielle said, âIt felt like we were sprinting through the whole evening with no time to breathe.â
She chose the same time every eveningâright before dinnerâto pause and reset.
She sat on the couch, put her feet flat on the floor, and listened to one calming song while taking slow breaths.
Instead of rushing, she softened her face and slowed her movementsâmicro cues Noraâs nervous system immediately picked up.
She invited Nora to join only if she wantedâsometimes Nora colored, sometimes she cuddled in quietly.
After the reset, Danielle calmly said, âOkay, letâs start dinner together.â
When parents reset first, children follow. Tiny habit, big impact.


