What You’re Not Hearing
(But Need to Know)
Even with the best tips and trying to stay calm…
👉 If your child’s nervous system is dysregulated, behavior strategies won’t work.
👉 If you’re dysregulated, co-regulation is impossible.
The key? Calm brain = calm behavior.
Why Parents Struggle
(and How to Move Forward)
Most loving parents stay stuck because:
👉 They confuse dysregulation with defiance.
👉 They react without a strategy, keeping the family in survival mode.
👉 They only focus on the child and not on shifting the environment too.
👉 They try to handle it alone, but support is vital for success.